It seems that every time I mention my Book of Me on Twitter, at least two or three people ask what on earth it is. Generally, I just refer them to this post
at The Fluent Self, but today it occurred to me to ask @LaVonneEllis if she wanted the link or wanted to hear more about my personal Book of Me. She wanted to hear about mine. Soooooo.... for LaVonne and everyone else who has wondered about it, here is a description:
The Book of Taryn is my guidebook to the proper care and feeding of the best version of myself. It is a book of reminders of the things that I learn about myself (because I can't count the number of times I've forgotten that when I feel really, really run down, the only
thing that helps is B12).
It's just a little baby book of me at the moment, but eventually I'll have an amazing resource that I sincerely hope I'll remember to read.
The front section of the bright pink Moleskine is for general information (like the aforementioned tidbit about the B12). Then in the back, I've used sticky tabs to make sections for special lists. Yes, bright pink. Because I'm really gothy. Except for all the pink stuff.
First, the Dammit List. (You can read the posts that inspired this here
.) This includes my non-negotiables. These are either so essential to who I am that I couldn't change them even for witness protection or so necessary for my health and happiness that I've drawn a line in the sand. It has entries like:
- "Family gatherings require stompy boots. And extra eyeliner. Always. Dammit."
- "Yes, 95% of my clothes are black, and bats the way I like it. Dammit."
- "No, as a matter of fact I don't have any 'normal' socks, and I wouldn't like any for my birthday, thank you very much."
Next is what was originally titled the Big Girl Panties list. It has recently been renamed the Serenity List (as in "grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change") because I realized that the former title reminded me too much of something my mother would say and therefore made me grumpy. It obviously contains notes about things that are not within my power to change, like the fact that my mother is the Queen of the Guilt Trip and an aunt is the head Drama Queen. They are 75 and 85. I see no legitimate possibility that they might change, and even if they do, it isn't something that I can make happen.
The List of Lies recently got its first entry. I knew I needed one, but Lies can be tough to recognize because, well, it's stuff I believe. Thanks again to @NaturalWrite and @AEIGratitude for helping me realize that my uncoolness was a Lie. Each entry in this section includes the Lie, who sez, and the evidence for the defense (in this case, evidence that I am in fact reasonably cool).
I have a tab made for a Purple Kangaroo List, but haven't worked on it yet. You can read about purple kangaroos here
on the Owning Pink site.
And now that I think about it, I need a soundtrack section and a space for quotes and mottos (like "Redheads. Totally worth the challenge!")
So that's my Book of Me. Questions?